To find our purpose in life, we need to first disconnect from modern society, seeking stillness and going on an inward journey following our innate talents and most importantly facing our suppressed traumas.
To truly reach divine relationships, we need to reconnect to the infinite love of God by loving ourselves unconditionally, overcoming our childhood traumas by facing them courageously and by focusing on beauty and the practice of gratitude on a daily basis.
To break those old negative cycles humanity has been trapped in for eternities, we heal and ground ourselves to become as solid as a rock, breaking all incoming waves and moving onto new paths of sovereignty and grace.
Your childhood traumas usually appear much worse than they actually were. Keep in mind, they are not those terribly scary things but merely stuck energy that waits to be resolved. Face it and let it flow through you.